Do soul mates exist? Can two people really become one when they are together? Every encounter and relationship teaches us something, but one thing One thing that remains constant is that we all need love and warmth. We need to feel we are needed.
Our whole life consists of building relationships. We build relationships with our parents. Relationships with friends. Relationships with food. Relationships with money. Relationships with children. Relationship with the boss… and everytime we can be different… too many trainings and courses are sold on this topic… and we just need to learn how to build relationships with the most important person — ourselves.
When my youngest son got sick, he said, 'Before I get married, it’s better not to get sick.' I asked him why, and he replied, 'Well, because there is no one to take care of you, when you are sick.' We can consider ourself like independent person, work hard, get care about our own success or socialize with friends. And feel itself lonely even being surrounded by a crowd.
I know that I need someone close to me, a companion who understands me without words. My husband and I share a deep connection, thinking and feeling alike.
If we compare our family to a ship, we steer it in the right direction. The bow is facing the direction we have chosen, and we all agree on it.
Our family is like a team. If we constantly criticize each other, we may become exhausted and in need of a break. This break should not be from each other, but rather a change of scenery and a chance to reset.
